Unexpected moves and changes in routine can be difficult for someone living with dementia. The household plan should preserve dignity, include the person as far as possible and bring together the people who already support their day-to-day life.

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Use the existing support network

Discuss foreseeable disruption with family, carers and the relevant care team. Record the person's preferred name, communication needs and the established care instructions another authorised helper would need. Keep the record current and secure. A general emergency guide cannot decide what clinical support or supervision is appropriate for an individual. Agree who will explain a change of location so several people do not give conflicting instructions.

  • Name a coordinator and a realistic backup.

Prepare for an unfamiliar setting

Choose a few familiar objects, suitable clothing and important contact information that can travel with the person. Check transport and any assistance needed without assuming a relative's car is suitable. A clear explanation from a familiar person may help more than giving several instructions at once or asking the person to organise belongings.

  • Tell helpers where the current care information is kept.

Avoid relying on memory alone

Put agreed meeting and contact arrangements in writing for responsible adults. Consider how a trusted person will notice a missed visit or failed call, especially if telecare needs electricity. Follow professional advice about identification and safety arrangements. Review the plan after a hospital stay, move or change in the person's support needs.

  • Do not leave emergency responsibility with the person unsupported.

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